My friend is cheating on his girlfriend. What should I do? This is a legit question for most teenagers and 20s people. Why? Because that’s the age that most of you are all trying to have fun with life and not even thinking about anything else. Let’s make this clear for both boys and girls.
What if you’re a guy and your friend is cheating on his girlfriend?
If you’re a guy and your friend is cheating on his girlfriend, the story depends on your age. Teenagers don’t take anything seriously. Even girlfriends are not taking relationships seriously sometimes but if they are serious you should talk to the boyfriend. Most important thing is to don’t ever talk to the girlfriend first. If you did, she’s gonna talk straight to her boyfriend and you’re gonna be the bad person for everything. Girls don’t understand everything like us. Maybe they’re drunk in love and they believe everything their boyfriend says, so your words will be wasted.
First, talk to your friend and ask why he’s cheating on her. If he’s giving pointless reasons, say that into his face. Explain to him why this is not a joke. Some people can handle pain but some don’t. This is more serious than we think. Tell him to stop cheating or stop the relationship (By the way, all these are applicable if he’s one of your best friends). If he’s not gonna listen to you, just let him be that way. If you’re a teenager, don’t ever talk to the girl by yourself. If you’re not a teenager and your age is above 20, you can talk with his girlfriend and explain the issue because if she’s older than 20 years, she can understand the situation. These are not uncommon things in this society. After that, she’ll do whatever she wants and you don’t have to be a part of it and yes, maybe you’ll lose your friend but you don’t need a friend like that. Nobody should waste their precious time and life on the wrong person.
What if you’re a girl and your friend is cheating on his girlfriend?
If you’re a girl and your friend is cheating on his girlfriend, it depends if you’re a friend of his girlfriend or not and also the age thing mentioned above. The first step is the same as above. Talk to the guy and let him know what he’s doing is so wrong. Most of the guys don’t care when a girl calls out for their mistakes. The next step depends on whether you’re a friend of his girlfriend or not. If she’s a god friend of yours, just talk to her and tell her that her boyfriend is cheating. She’ll believe you or she’ll think you’re jealous of them. It doesn’t matter, you did the right thing and you know that. If you’re not a friend of hers, the best thing is to mind your own business. She won’t believe you unless you have proof of that. If you don’t have proof, she’s going to think that you’re jealous of her for sure. So if you’re a girl, the best thing is to talk to the guy and explain to him.
Hope you found the answer to your question. Make sure to keep reading articles so you won’t get surprised by any other issues that you’re gonna face during your life. We wish you the best of luck!
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