I love my girlfriend but I want to break up, we’ve heard this more than 100 times on social media and forums. This is a situation where guys get stuck so hard, so we’re here to solve this issue for you. If you love your girlfriend like you always do, the reason why you want to break up can’t be a common one. We have gathered some common reasons from forums such as Reddit. Let’s go through each of them and figure out solutions for them.
This article is not about how to break up or why you should break up with your girlfriend. This is about why/how you should break up with your girlfriend even when you love her so much.
You love your girlfriend but you want to break up? Let’s find out why
She’s too good for you
This is a more common reason than you think. Most of the people who get our help with this topic have this issue. What do they mean by she’s too good for you 🤔 she can be richer, maybe she’s way more attractive than you or maybe you feel like you’re not treating her enough but you can’t get decisions like this without knowing how she’s feeling about you. Some girls only need your love and nothing else. They don’t care about your financial status or how you look.
So first, try to get her intentions about you out of her by asking directly. Ask her directly whether she thinks that you’re suitable to be her husband one day. If she’s talking with confidence, she really doesn’t care about anything other than you and your love for her. If not the best thing is to leave her in the most professional way. If she’s too good for you and you think that this relationship is not going to be stable for a long time, it’s better to break up if you love your girlfriend.
Let her know the reason you’re breaking up with her and again do it in the most professional way. Breaking up with someone you love isn’t easy so don’t let your emotions get in front of you.
Family Background Difference
This is mostly relatable for Asians but also when one of you has so much money than the others. Money is just another factor for a good and enjoyable life but your father and mother won’t understand since they worked so hard to get you where you are right now. Even if you said that you don’t care about money, your girlfriend’s family is not likely to agree with that.
Which highly successful and rich father wants to give his daughter to someone with non-stable financial status? Especially when you’re in your 20s. So you should be able to explain this to your girlfriend before her family joins the conversation. Explain to her that you won’t get her parents’ blessing.
Collapsing Future Goals
This is so relatable for most of the couples out there. Let me explain this to you. Everyone has different life goals and dreams to follow within their lifetime. As an example, if the boyfriend has a dream to study IT and go abroad with his family but the girls’ family won’t leave the country and the girlfriend also doesn’t want to leave her family that’s what we call future goals collapsing.
This can be solved in only one way which is one of you should agree to sacrifice or change their goals to be with each other but sacrificing your life goals for someone won’t be a good idea. So the best thing is to explain to her about your dreams, goals, and how badly you want to achieve them.
These are the most common reasons why most guys want to break up with their girlfriend even when he loves her so much. I love my girlfriend but I want to break up? Issue is solved!
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