Hey Girls, Let’s get straight to the question! Why does he keep me around if he doesn’t want a relationship? There can be good reasons and bad reasons. Let me take you through all the good and bad reasons why he keeps you around if he doesn’t want a relationship. Please read the whole article and grab the most accurate reason for your situation because all of the reasons can be different from a person to person. Grab the best reason, ask your man what the hell is wrong with him 😉
Still checking you out!
If he always keeps you around and taking care of you, but not starting a relationship. Don’t worry he is still checking you whether you’re good for the long run. Don’t get mad at him because his looking someone for a long run and not for a short one. Have you ever noticed that his trying to test you? or his asking you for help more often? That’s you getting tested by him. He is testing you girl!
Now don’t jump at him or get mad at him. Just give him some time and wait for him to take the next step. You’re so lucky to get someone like him because most of the guys are just trying to test girls after starting a relationship and if it doesn’t work out, they leave you. This is so much better than that so, give him some time to make the next step. He will for sure, trust me! 😊
Not seeing what he wants inside of you!
This is a common reason for most of the relationships doesn’t work out. It’s always better to don’t start one if it’s not going to work out, right? Maybe his dreams and yours are different or your goals and way too different to be compared. As an example, he wants to go to Japan to live the rest of his life and you’re so against in leaving the country. Yes, it’s about future and you don’t have to think about those stuff right now, but he might be looking someone to have forever. You both know that issue is going to come up one day for sure and how are you going to face that?
Since he doesn’t see what he needs inside of you, he’s stuck on the fence of asking you out. He still loves you and cares about you but his stuck on the fence. If you see those things in him, best way is to talk with him more often and solve those un-matching reasons. Maybe you’ll have to change one of your goals to be with him. Love is all about sacrifices and commitment. 😊
He just wants to be FRIENDS
I know it’s so sad but what to do if that’s the truth ☹ Have you ever told him that you love him? If not that’s on you girl. Everything starts with a good friendship, and nothing starts as a relationship. I was a friend of my partner for 2 years before starting a relationship. Let him know that you’re looking forward to starting a relationship with him and see his reaction for that. Maybe he is more than happy to start a relationship with you.
Before getting mad at him, let him know what you’re up to. Remember, you’ll never know what’s in his mind 😉
If he really wants to be just your friend and he doesn’t want to be your partner for life, let him be like that and you should move on. Maybe he’ll come back one day but that’s in the future. Don’t waste your loved feelings for him and also that means your partner is still out there somewhere looking for you. Don’t rush girl, you’ll find him at the right time!
What does it mean if a guy likes you but doesn’t want a relationship?
He thinks that you’re too good for him
This happens most of the time between people and they end up being just friends forever and most of them regret the fact they didn’t asked her out. That’s a huge sin and don’t ever let that happen to your relationship. This can be happened for many reasons.
- You or Your family is rich and his not
- You’re beautiful and his not
- You’re working and his not employed
Those are the main reason that he’ll be thinking that he’s not suitable for you. Love is not about money or beauty. It’s all about understanding and caring between two people for a long time. If those factors are not bothering you, go ahead and let him know that you don’t even care about his status and his color. If that’s the case, his going to hug you and tell you that he wants to be with you. End of Story 🙂
All above reasons are common and can be solved by talking to each other and understanding them. Now we’re going to discuss some untold reasons which are way different than above ones and these can be signs for you to get the hell out of there as soon as possible.
Why does he keep texting me if he doesn’t want a relationship?
He doesn’t want to be alone or to be bored
Are you experiencing the scenarios I have listed below?
- He only texts or calls you flirts when his alone specially when he has nothing to do
- Doesn’t even check your texts or answer your calls when he’s with his friends
- He ignores you when he’s with his friends
- Ignores you when his busy with work
- Doesn’t talk to you front of his family
Girl, you must change the path of your life and move on. He’s just trying to stop getting bored and he hates being alone. You’re just another friend for him but a special one that he knows you’re always available to talk. Check above things few more times and take a decision and stop wasting your time and feelings for him.
He’s just using you for his happy time and don’t want to get serious with you
Does he text or calls you when he wants to do sexting and not interesting in talking at other times? Does he only want to meet you when you’re home alone and doesn’t want to go out or for a date? He always talks about having sex and not about their future or family? That’s a RED FLAG and you need to get the hell out of there.
I know the feeling when you love him, but he just wants to have sex with you. He’s going to leave when the right time comes for him. Every person has sexual feelings for their opposite genders and that’s a normal thing but Don’t waste those feelings for someone like him. Even sex is more passionate and beautiful with the right person.
He wants to be Free Forever
This reason is way different than other ones. Some people have spent most of the time of their lives under rules of their parents and they seek the freedom that they missed in their teenage years. We all know how our teenage years went with partying, travelling without any responsibilities. He might be trying to experience that in he’s 20s. He wants to keep all the girls around him and stay free without any responsibilities.
A guy that can’t be responsible for you is no what you want. If his not responsible of himself, he’s never going to take care of you. Best thing is to leave him and let him learn the lesson by time. Don’t waste your time and love for someone who’s not responsible. He will not commit on your relationship.
I think I covered each and every reason on why he keeps me around if he doesn’t want a relationship. Don’t panic on anything. Find someone whom you can talk with you about this matter. I wish everyone of you will find the best guy for you and figure out what’s best for you. Also Don’t forget to follow us on Facebook!
Have a great life!